10 Lagu Manca Penyebab Gagal Move On!

1. Lifehouse - You and Me

Lifehouse\'s Facebook

Cause it's you and me
And all of the people people with nothing to do
Nothing to prove
And it's you and me
And all other people
And I don't know why
I can't keep my eyes off of you

Something about you now
That I can't quite figure out
Everything she does is beautiful
Everything she does is right

Lagu Lifehouse satu ini punya modal kuat bagi kita untuk tidak melupakan mantan. Pasalnya, lagu ini punya kisah tentang seseorang yang memikirkan (mantan) kekasihnya, sampai-sampai memiliki dunia yang galau, alias tidak bisa move on.

2. Justin Bieber - That Should Be Me

Justin Bieber\'s Facebook

That should be me
Holdin' your hand
That should be me
Makin' you laugh
That should be me
This is so sad
That should be me
That should be me
That should be me
Feelin' your kiss

Penyesalan itu selalu datang belakangan, begitulah kira-kira pesan lagu ini. Dan, hal tersebut bisa tumbuh menjadi racun bagi orang-orang yang galau. Lewat lagu ini, Justin mengajak pendengarnya untuk merasakan kegalauan bagaimana rasanya melihat mantan dengan pacar baru. Dan, ujung-ujungnya kita bertanya, kenapa bukan aku yang memegang tanganmu?

3. Christina Perri - A Thousand Years

Christina Perri\'s Facebook

I have died everyday, waiting for you
Darling, don't be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

Time stands still
Beauty in all she is
I will be brave
I will not let anything, take away
What's standing in front of me
Every breath, every hour has come to this

Ini lagu galau the best untuk saat ini dan nanti. Christina Perri sukses menghipnotis pendengarnya untuk menggalaukan diri. Lagu ini bisa diinterpretasikan sebagai bentuk orang-orang yang setia menunggu kekasihnya kembali, termasuk juga mantan. Menunggu mantan hingga 1000 tahun lamanya? So Sweet tapi jleb juga ya?

4. A Rocket To The Moon - Like We Used To

ARTTM\'s Facebook

Fourteen months and seven days ago
Oh, I know you know
How we felt about that night
Just your skin against the window
Oh we took it slow
And we both know
It should have been me inside that car
It should have been me instead of him in the dark

Does he watch your favorite movies?
Does he hold you when you cry?
Does he let you tell him all your favorite parts
When you've seen it a million times?
Does he sing to all your music
While you dance to Purple Rain?
Does he do all these things

Like I used to?

Dari judulnya saja sudah bikin hati jadi tidak tenang. Iya, soalnya bisa bikin kita merasakan kehilangan yang dalam akan kekasih kita yang telah pergi. Terlebih, dia yang telah menjadi mantan itu telah menemukan pacar baru. Akhirnya, kita mulai berpikir, merelakan mantan itu adalah hal yang sungguh sulit. What next? you have been failed to move on.

5. Yellowcard - Only One

Yellowacrd\'s Facebook

Here I go,
Scream my lungs out and try to get to you,
You are my only one.
I let go,
There's just no one that gets me like you do
You are my only,
My only one.

Made my mistakes, let you down
And I can't, I can't hold on for too long.
Ran my whole life in the ground
And I can't, I can't get up when your gone.

Kadang kita sudah sangat merasa cocok dengan seorang yang kita cintai, hati kita terkunci dan bilang cuma dialah yang ada di hati. Akan tetapi kenyataan selalu berkata lain, satu kesalahan kecil membuat segalanya hancur. Emosi lagu ini sangat kuat untuk mewakili perasaan semacam itu, intinya, apakah aku bisa mendapatkan kesempatan kedua denganmu?

6. Hoobastank - The Reason

Hoobastank\'s Facebook

I've found a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
And the reason is you

I'm sorry that I hurt you
It's something I must live with everyday
And all the pain I put you through
I wish I could take it all away
And be the one who catches all your tears
That's why I need you to hear

Mengakui kesalahan itu perlu, apalagi jika hal tersebut jadi penyebab putusnya hubungan cinta kita. Dan, Hoobastank dan lagu hits-nya satu ini membantu kita yang mencari pembenaran untuk balikan dengan mantan. Intinya, dia adalah alasan kenapa kita tidak butuh move on, begitu bukan?

7. Katy Perry - Thinking of You

Katy Perry\'s Facebook

You said move on
Where do I go
I guess second best
Is all I will know

Cause when I'm with him
I am thinking of you
Thinking of you
What you would do if
You were the one
Who was spending the night
Oh I wish that I
Was looking into your eyes

You're the best
And yes I do regret
How I could let myself
Let you go
Now the lesson's learned
I touched it I was burned
Oh I think you should know

Sudah punya pasangan baru bukan berarti bisa move on, kisah Katy Perry di lagu ini contohnya. Lagu Thinking About You menceritakan jika Katy belum mampu move on, meski kini sudah memiliki pacar baru. Bahkan, dirinya merasa menyesal kenapa meninggalkan kekasih yang lama. Hal itu cocok sekali dengan pepatah, Saat merasakan kehilangan, kita akan tahu pentingnya arti seseorang.

8. Jason Mraz - I Won't Give Up

Jason Mraz\'s Facebook

I don't wanna be someone who walks away so easily
I'm here to stay and make the difference that I can make
Our differences they do a lot to teach us how to use
The tools and gifts we got, yeah, we got a lot at stake
And in the end, you're still my friend at least we did intend
For us to work we didn't break, we didn't burn
We had to learn how to bend without the world caving in
I had to learn what I've got, and what I'm not, and who I am

I won't give up on us
Even if the skies get rough
I'm giving you all my love
I'm still looking up, still looking up

Well, I won't give up on us (no I'm not giving up)
God knows I'm tough enough (I am tough, I am loved)
We've got a lot to learn (we're alive, we are loved)
God knows we're worth it (and we're worth it)

Jason Mraz menuangkan kegalaunnya di lagu I Won't Give Up. Lagu ini bercerita tentang seseorang yang masih berjuang mendapatkan kesempatan kedua dengan mantan kekasihnya. Emosi Jason di lagu ini mengajak kita untuk tidak move on, dan sebaliknya cara terbaik untuk move on adalah balikan.

9. Bruno Mars - When I Was Your Man

Bruno Mars\'s Facebook

It all just sounds like ooh, ooh ooh hoo hoo
Mm, too young, too dumb to realize
That I should have bought you flowers
And held your hand
Should have gave you all my hours
When I had the chance
Take you to every party 'cause all you wanted to do was dance

Siapa sih yang tidak bisa galau ketika melihat mantan berduaan dengan kekasih baru? Lagu ini cocok untuk kalian yang merasakan hal seperti itu. Karena Bruno Mars berhasil mengajak para pendengarnya berada di situasi bahwa bukan kita yang bersama dengan wanita di dalam lagu itu. Ujung-ujungnya, kita gagal move on deh karena keterusan mikirin mantan dan kekasih barunya.

10. Taylor Swift - Back To December

Taylor Swift\'s Facebook

So this is me swallowing my pride,
Standing in front of you saying I'm sorry for that night.
And I go back to December all the time.
It turns out freedom ain't nothing but missing you,
Wishing I'd realized what I had when you were mine.
I'd go back to December, turn around and make it all right.
I go back to December all the time.

These days I haven't been sleeping
Staying up playing back myself leaving,
When your birthday passed and I didn't call.
And I think about summer, all the beautiful times
I watched you laughing from the passenger side
And realized I'd loved you in the fall.
And then the cold came, the dark days when fear crept into my mind.
You gave me all your love and all I gave you was goodbye.

Kenapa Desember? Karena Desember adalah transisi untuk membuka lembaran baru. Dan, Taylor Swift memilih untuk tidak membuka lembaran barunya, alias tidak ingin move on. Yang tersisa kemudian hanyalah penyesalan, kenapa dulu aku sia-siakan kamu ya?

Dari yang sudah disebutkan tadi, mana nih yang lagu galau favorit kalian?